Um, though it is a cliche' I have had the MOST horrendous experience with my mother-in-law. Yes, thirty+ years of marriage, and this slithering snake rears its head. What she did is unbelievable, and worse, DH seems to "accept" it.

You know what? I won't. And I am going to soon be leaving him, and if nothing else, I will set out on a "who-knows-where" trip. The HELL with them both!!!!